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The Two of You
Fill it in separately, then compare. It is designed to surface the four or five things couples do not say out loud before a wedding.
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What is inside
What the worksheet covers
Fill it in separately, then compare. It is designed to surface the four or five things couples do not say out loud before a wedding.
- Why to fill this in separately
- The early-start question
- The how-much-moving question
- The other-people question
- The comfort question
- The money question
- The one-thing question
- Comparing the two sheets
- What to do where you disagree
- Turning it into a brief
No cost, no obligation. We ask for an email so we can send it and, if you want it, follow up once.
How it opens
The first page of The Two of You
Fill this in separately. Not together, and not out loud. Then swap.
The reason is not drama. It is that honeymoon planning happens in the middle of wedding planning, when both of you have spent four months being accommodating, and the habit of saying "whatever you’d like" has become automatic. That habit produces itineraries nobody chose.
The rest is behind the form above
It opens straight away in your browser — no wait, no attachment, and it prints cleanly if you would rather have a file.
How it works
Three steps, about four minutes
Fill in the form
Dates and budget are optional here — if you only want the guide, name and email are enough.
Read it
It opens in your browser immediately and prints cleanly to PDF if you would rather have a file.
Ask us anything
If you told us your dates, our Africa specialist follows up within 24 hours with a tailored outline. If you did not, we send the guide and leave you alone.
About the download
Is it really free?
Yes. No payment, no card, no trial. We publish it because people who plan well are better to work with, and because some of them come back to us when they are ready.
Will you spam me?
No. If you give us dates, our specialist sends one tailored follow-up. If you do not, you get the guide and nothing else unless you ask. Every email has an unsubscribe link and we do not sell or share your details.
Do I have to book with you to use it?
No. It is written to be useful even if you plan the whole trip yourself or book elsewhere. It would be a poor advertisement if it were not.
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